View Single Post
 
Old Mar 16, 2022, 03:56 PM
Echos Myron redux Echos Myron redux is offline
Magnate
 
Member Since: Apr 2018
Location: UK
Posts: 2,171
Quote:
Originally Posted by susannahsays View Post
I think in your place, I would also be hesitant because I would feel unsure if I trusted that this time his boundaries accurately reflect what he can handle. I mean since he didn't realize until it was too late before and that resulted in harm to you both. My instinct to withdraw to protect myself would be really activated.
I agree with you. I think he is worried about me feeling abandoned, so I think he is offering more than he is comfortable with. I want him to recover. I don't want to make him worse. I always said, I don't need to worry about his boundaries, if he can't do something he won't offer. But this has shaken my belief in his ability to do that.
Hugs from:
ElectricManatee, Lemoncake, LonesomeTonight, Oliviab, SlumberKitty
Thanks for this!
susannahsays