I am sorry about your eye issue. I wish you luck with your surgery

Well people get into fights but blocking is extreme. Having said that I don’t want to sound harsh but do you have drinking problem? I was in the relationship with alcoholic (not saying you are), but by the time I realized he had a problem I was so invested. Few months into it he sounded drunk on the phone and I had a bad feeling but thought it’s just an accident. Turned out it wasn’t and I wished I left the minute he sounded drunk and forever blocked him. I had no experience in that as neither me nor my family or friends drink so I didn’t know what’s going on.

Do you often drink? Does he? You don’t have to answer but these kinds of things do cause problems