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Originally Posted by will19
I may be wrong or I may be raising some eyebrows here. It sounds like to me that he's totally not interested in you. I think that you rubbed him the wrong way and he doesn't want you.
With me, I've had that happen. I'd be with a woman who was stoned and I didn't like the way she was acting. Being stoned, she would make me feel so uncomfortable that even an apology wouldn't help.
I have "blocked" and used some hurtful words myself when anyone (man or woman) gets on the wrong side of me more than enough. It's not my nature to do that very thing, but I would when I feel like I have been pushed well over the limit. I give people chances when they make mistakes; but then they don't improve or get worse. And that's when I have to get tough or lose my mind and be in a relationship that's not good for me.
Maybe it will all turn out alright, but if it doesn't, then all I can say is just remember this and chalk it up to experience. If it doesn't work out then you can think hard about all of this and do better the next time.
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I see your point. You might be right but I still think he didn’t handle it well.
Personally I’d never date anyone who ever gets stoned and I made a mistake getting involved with a drinker once but it doesn’t mean I had to be rude to them or lead them on with fake promises to talk later. There’s a polite way to end a relationship in a kinder manner.
Blocking is a drastic measure if they keep harassing you after you told them to stop. It’s unnecessary to just block people the minute you decided they are a bad match
I do get it that sometimes people are pushed over the limit. Then I hope he apologizes and ends a relationship in a proper way and doesn’t act out of control when he calms down.
Some people just don’t know how to end relationships politely (no insults and not dragging it out and leading people on when it’s obvious it’s over)