This guy is a jerk and I wish you could see it. I wish you could be the one walking away. He is ending things in a completely inappropriate way and he sounds mean. (he uses the word "retarded," he blocks you out of nowhere over a text). Also who wants to "just be friends" with someone who just broke up with them? I'm not friends with any of my exes. He sounds cruel. No one I'd want to be with.


I personally think it was a good thing you told him that you'd texted him drunk - that's honesty, and its communication. I think its good that you apologized. Though you definitely don't need to grovel.


This guy isn't worth anymore communication with. You might regret it, if you do keep trying to talk to him, and it won't make you feel better later on, to try to convince him to come back to you. That's my advice, but at the same time, please do what you feel is best for you.


Good luck with you eye surgery. I hope it goes well.