I don’t ascribe to a lot of dominant society social norms, beliefs, gender norms or expectations…
I view journaling, blogging and posting on forums the same.
I post on here and chronic illnesses Facebook groups, to process my thoughts [emoji189], frustrations, brainstorm, brain dump and to laugh.
Towards the end of last year on a thread I created…
I was experiencing a horrible flare up and vented my frustrations…
Someone imposed there UNSOLICITED opinion multiple times…. responding with ACADEMIA from some school they are attending.
Doing this is the equivalent of a healthcare provider saying, “search shows you should fee better.”
When someone is frustrated, dealing with pain and the symptoms of chronic illnesses and/or mental illnesses…
It is very toxic, harmful and lacking boundaries to give UNSOLICITED advice via quoting statistics and academia.
I told the person numerous times I was NOT interested in her unsolicited feedback.
It does not matter if you have the best of intentions, people have the right to be left alone and NOT want your unsolicited feedback.
I requested the thread be deleted and it was at my request.
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