(((((((((( Griffe )))))))))) I count you as a friend, and on reading you post, the first thing I thought was, why is Griffe in a wheelchair? Does that make me insensitive or uncaring or judging? I personally don't believe it does.

People do stare out of curiosity and at anything out of the ordinary, unfortunately people will do that. And then they don't know what to do. Frightened of offering to help incase it offends you maybe.

I'm sorry things are so rough for you.