Actions do speak loud and clear a lot of the time, but sometimes things aren’t always so clear, especially when there are mixed messaged. He’s done this sort of thing before, and he hasn’t always been so clear. I can accept a breakup, it isn’t even that. It’s I need to for sure from him if that’s where this is at now. That’s why I want to ask if things are okay with us. If they really aren’t, then I have to accept it, pick up the pieces, and start moving on. I know that’s the sort of question you ask in person. But if there’s a disagreement the other person may be reluctant to see you. I don’t really see the harm in asking. It may annoy him, but this is my relationship too, and I need to know where things are at.

Furthermore, breaking up with someone over a drunk text message is a bit over the top, especially of it’s something he’s done himself. He’s drunk texted me before. But then again, he blocked me over it.

I really don’t see the harm in asking. Yes, his actions should make this clear, but they don’t.