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Originally Posted by AliceKate
I hear you, but to me, the choice is clear and the path leads through the pain. The potentiality of my anger carries consequences that are not okay. I can stay in limbo, but I am not sure I can keep that balance as I get older. Plus, if I somehow manage to pass through the pain, maybe there's a chance at a good life. And if I end up unaliving myself, that's okay, too.
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It might be you misunderstood what I was trying to say. I wasn't saying your pain is useless, or anything like that. Anyway, thanks for clarifying all this. The one last thing I'd like to say is that your therapist has severely violated the ethics of therapy with that thing he claimed was just for positive transference. He should be reported to his supervisors or the national psychology association or something, whatever is available in your country. It's an outrageous sin for him to use psychoanalytic explaining away of what he was doing. I'm really sorry.