We all have boundaries and it sounds like you seriously crossed his.

I think it all comes down to how much he values your relationship.

Are you worried about us judging you in terms of what you did? You said it wasn’t physical but there are other ways to cheat that don’t involve touch. Not saying you did but you threw out the comments about not physically cheating so I thought it’s another form.

Have you figured out why you did what you did that caused the breakup?