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Sir Quincy, I'm sorry I have no words of wisdom for you. I would like to addressed something said by others. Some you commented that he must not value the relationship if he says he doesn't have time for one right now. I'd like to give a personal POV. The last year and a half of her life my mother was repeatedly in and out of a nursing home, hospital and assisted living facility. While I did not provide her direct care it was up to me to see to it she got the care she needed. Add to that I was working 60+ hours a week. I was so exhausted I did not know if I was coming or going. I would not have had the time or energy for a relationship.
It could be that the guy is making an excuse. It could also be the guy really doesn't have the energy a relationship requires.
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