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Originally Posted by nottrustin
When my therapist died it was the second hardest death I ever experienced. Allow yourself to grieve in whatever way you need to. They theraputic relationships can be very intimate (not in a sexual way). It is eve more painful because most people will not understand the relationship.
The death of mg therapist was one of the hardest things I have experienced. I was complicated by thr fact the people closest to me did not understand the closeness of our relationship or the extent of my grief.
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Yes, exactly that! When I told my H I was so upset, the first time we stopped working together after she'd been diagnosed, his reaction was 'So? She's just your therapist.' Like I shouldn't care about her. Needless to say I haven't bothered to tell him she has died. I couldn't handle the invalidating comments right now.
I emailed her son (who is also a therapist) to give him my condolences. I never really expected to hear back from him, but he replied almost straight away. He thanked me for getting in touch, said my email had made him cry and that she had mentioned me to him in terms of being a long-term client who she thought a lot of. Reading that made me cry! It felt comforting to reach out to someone else who knew her. You are right, most people won't understand the nature of the relationship and because it's 1:1, we generally don't have anyone we can talk to about that person.
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