One more post I'd like to add....
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Originally Posted by divine1966
I wonder why you’d not admit to him that those were drunk texts. You said it “should be obvious”. How so? You said to leave you alone so if he doesn’t know you were drunk, no wonder he is confused.
Is there a reason you can’t admit that or a reason he might find it obvious? If someone sends me nasty text, the last thing on my mind would be that they were drunk.
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Originally Posted by FeelingLost78
I’m feeling just horrible. I didn’t really break up with him. It was a drunk text. Even if he took it that way, he still didn’t have to block me. (...) What he’s done is very rude. Why is he being so mean to me? (...)
I do agree with all of you that he’s being immature. What a horrible thing to do to someone. If I received that message from him, I would likely know it’s a drunk text. If not, I would have texted back and had the courtesy to ask what’s going on. I wouldn’t have just blocked the person.
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Without knowing more on the overall relationship itself, I can't tell how that text would be read by most people if they were in the boyfriend's place, but reading it as an outsider with no more information, I don't see it as nasty.
I see it as clear as in, you're talking about how you're scared having trouble dealing with the health issue and so you want to be alone for now. I will say the being alone part is not 100% clear but to me it would just come off like, finding it hard to deal with it so needing to be alone to try and endure through it. I have no idea if you had that in mind though.
Was it this or did you have some need to push him away when drunk? I mean, I didn't read it like that because you said in it that you feel scared. So it did not sound angry or impatient to me overall but overwhelmed with the stress and anxiety instead.