I thought the same thing but then OP’s possessions being in the guy’s house made it look that they are in the same area. But then again OP asked how would she see him in person. It would be easy, wouldn’t? Very confused.

In my long life experience I observed that sometimes ladies think they are in serious relationships but nothing in guys’ actions indicate they thinks they are in relationship at all, let alone serious one. He is just living his life doing his own thing while woman agonize what he thinks and when is he coming back to her. I used to run into this when I was young. Young women thought they are about to get married while guys were just living their lives.

I think I used to do that too when I was young. Imagining something that just wasn’t there.

Men in serious relationships don’t block their partners. This just isn’t it. Plus if it was that serious it would be easy to get the stuff. Send him a letter, leave a note on his door, tell him to leave things in the porch and pick it up or just come over and knock on the door (bring a friend if need to)