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Old Mar 23, 2022, 08:24 PM
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Originally Posted by FeelingLost78 View Post
There is something else I need to know. If this is a breakup, he has something of mine that I would like back. It’s a book written by my grandfather. It’s out of print and I can’t get another copy. How would I contact him to get it back if he’s blocked me?
Drive to his house. Ring the bell. After a year long relationship, it’s not a problem to just show up. Or put a note on his door asking for it to be left on a porch and you’ll pick it up. Ask it to be mailed to you. Leave an envelope and stamps in a plastic bag on his porch/door. Mail him a letter asking for grandpas book. Ask mutual friends or a relative to go get it

Many options to get your stuff from him. Of course some exes could refuse to return things. But that’s why it’s wise not to get entangled with people who are inclined to not return things. And next time don’t give them such prized possessions
Thanks for this!
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