I agree. There is so much that has to go into dating. I mean, most of us who are/were married can probably say there is some sort of comfort to not having to chase a member of the opposite sex anymore.
Its funny but my husband and I are always laughing at how different we both are now that we have been married 5yrs. He no longer has the greatest bod and the abs, and I have gained weight since having my son and just don't dress up like I used too. It would be too much work to date now!!!! LOL.