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Mar 24, 2022, 01:54 PM
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Member Since: Jul 2019
Location: Downtown Vibes, California
Posts: 15,701
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I've been with my husband for 40 years and we have two adult children, a daughter and a son. For the first 20 years of our relationship our marriage was very rocky. (Ultimately, we did end up separating for some years once the kids were grown, but then returned to our marriage). I was in therapy for a part of those years, and in many ways that therapy was helpful for me, personally. But I really needed to be in therapy with someone who specialized in marriage and family issues. Someone who could have taught my husband and I how to more effectively communicate without blame and all the pain that results.
Are you in therapy? Also, what is your medication situation?
btw - welcome to the forum 
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