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Originally Posted by FeelingLost78
Because he has me blocked on everything. I have one of those texting apps. I could contact him on that. But would it be okay to do so? Usually if someone blocks you, they don’t want to hear from you, or they’re playing games and want to hear from you do you fall back into their patterns. Regardless, That’s why I’m so hesitant to contact him. I also want to ask where things stand because I feel I deserve to know that much.
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Sounds like the blocking really affects you a lot. I used to feel that way when I was being ignored (not blocked, just ignored for long times). Please try and figure out how to not get affected by it anymore because it's where you become open to his manipulative influence, it's like a sort of pressure that will take much effort to not give in to and if you resist giving in to the pressure, you will have to deal with a lot of strong emotions of yours which is exhausting, and if you give in to it, then it just gets worse as that means you are doing his bidding from that point on. And since you mention you've had him block you several times before, all this dynamic just gets worse.
Just my experience of how it is, anyway. I hope this helps some.
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Originally Posted by FeelingLost78
He hasn’t so much. A few times when he’s been upset with me, or when he’s been drunk, but normally, no.
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That doesn't sound good at all to me tbh (again see above). Him blocking you repeatedly, that's not a good relationship AT ALL! I really thought based on your earlier post that it was good and he was just doing out of character behaviour but then it became clear that this isn't the case. This isn't out of character for him. This is unfortunately who he is.