I ''ruined'' my mother's life

It doesn't make a lot of sense though, that the person who told me this was my father, who had multiple affairs since they had married, married the queen of the *****es and said ''why are you crying'' to my mother when they got divorced.

His ''pet name'' for her was Pack horse. How mean

He was pathologically mean with money.

But I was ''always'' mean...

Sorry, I guess this is off topic

I try not to harm Papa bear. I think mostly I manage ok.