And you keep writing those invalidating answers to my posts as if you think I will agree with you. I´m sure many of the members here at PC and other forums would have reacted to how this counselor acted.

You use your standard answer to most of those opinions although things like being on time, being prepared, creating a safe environment for the client is nothing more than basic skills that every decent therapist should be able to use. But no - to you most things depend on the client and that the client is overreacting, not accepting the therapist and so on.