It's interesting how different people can see a situation so differently!

In my perspective she has been exceedingly patient with you. If one partner is not available for in-person interaction for two years, the other partner, in my view, might quite reasonably decide to move on.

In my view, the covid concern is manageable and could be addressed. I wondered, though, what your family feels about this relationship.

If personal problems interfere with your relationship, well, your partner again might reasonably (in my view) decide, after two years, that it is time to move on.

I hope that you are in fact able to go on March 26!