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Originally Posted by Have Hope
You said you have family where you are? Can you lean on them, visit them and spend more time with family so that you are not so alone?
And what scares you about being alone? Are you worried about falling into a depression if you don't have a boyfriend in your life? Being alone has lots of positives and benefits. It makes one a stronger person, more self aware and self sufficient. These are all wonderful things that only enhance your life, as opposed to detract from it. A toxic relationship steals and robs you of inner peace, true happiness and true satisfaction.
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It’s not about having a boyfriend to make me not feel alone. I’ve lived alone and spent most of my adult life alone. I’ve had relationships and was married during this time, but I’ve been alone most of the time. I’m tired of being alone. Any benefit from it is exhausted for me. I’ve never particularly cared for it. Some people just don’t like being alone. My biggest fear is ending up completely alone the rest of my life. I want a relationship. I want someone to settle down with. I wouldn’t feel so bad if I actually had some friends. It’s only my parents here. They’re often busy. I’m by myself most of the time.