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Originally Posted by Have Hope
Well, if you want someone to settle down with, this man is not it. There are plenty of other men, and I am sure they exist where you live, too. It doesn't have to be this man. You cannot force a relationship onto someone, which is what you are practically doing.
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I don’t think it’s forcing. I told him that I will understand if that’s not what he wants. I left it open for possibly working things out and told him I will understand if he doesn’t want that. I told him that I would like to talk and work things out if we can. I feel I left it open.
As for available men, I can’t be where they are due to my work schedule. I don’t get off usually until 8:00 at night, by then there’s not much going on, except the bar scene. Here those aren’t places to meet quality guys. I often work weekends so those are out. I usually have two weekdays off during the week, when everyone else is at work. So even my schedule isn’t equipped for meeting single men.
I did say the wrong things, didn’t I?