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Old Mar 26, 2022, 02:59 PM
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Originally Posted by FeelingLost78 View Post
I don’t think it’s forcing. I told him that I will understand if that’s not what he wants. I left it open for possibly working things out and told him I will understand if he doesn’t want that. I told him that I would like to talk and work things out if we can. I feel I left it open.

As for available men, I can’t be where they are due to my work schedule. I don’t get off usually until 8:00 at night, by then there’s not much going on, except the bar scene. Here those aren’t places to meet quality guys. I often work weekends so those are out. I usually have two weekdays off during the week, when everyone else is at work. So even my schedule isn’t equipped for meeting single men.

I did say the wrong things, didn’t I?
Well, it comes across to me as forceful when you use a texting app to get in touch with him, which forces him to talk to you. He blocked you everywhere, yet you're still trying to communicate via other means. That is forcing the issue. I can see why he says you're both toxic to each other. Your behaviors are not exactly mirroring what a stable healthy person would do. The healthy thing to do when someone blocks you is to give up and walk away, and for your own good.
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