I'm sorry that you're dealing with this--I understand why you're especially worried, given what happened with your former T. I'm glad your T was open and up-front with you about what's going on. (I'd want to know, too--I'm sure my mind would go to all the worst-case scenarios.) I assume it's a lumpectomy then? Did she say if she was getting radiation or chemo and if that might affect her work schedule? Though they may not know until they do the surgery, I'm guessing.


I hope her surgery goes well and that she makes a full recovery. Hugs, if wanted.