To be honest, it does sound to me like he doesnt actually want to be with you. I would take what he is doing to be a break-up and go out and do things for yourself, try not to even think about this guy (easier said than done i know, cause its the whole pink elephant wearing a purple tutu dress thing, "dont think of a pink elephant wearing a purple tutu" and getting told that means you keep trlling yourself dont think of it and the more you try not to think of it, the more you actually think of it) thats why i say try not to

Stay busy doing things for yourself

You deserve to be happy, even if his behaviour is showing you the opposite