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Originally Posted by Molinit
You are refusing to live in reality. You have been shown and told in many different ways by him that he doesn't want to deal with you. You are claiming this latest contact is about the book but really the book is a minor thing and you are trying to emotionally blackmail him into being with you. If he returns the book, great. If not, you'll have to deal with it. Stop contacting him. Using the old texting app to contact him because you're blocked everywhere else is weird and stalkerish. Stop doing that.
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Do you mind saying where it sounds like emotional blackmail? I'm just personally interested as I'm thinking about how some of my bf's before wouldn't leave me alone when I wanted to break up. But I am sure I need to understand more on it. When reading OP's lines about what she sent to the bf using that old texting app, I didn't notice any emotional blackmail. Can you please say more on this?