I have never had a problem w video games or anything like it. I grew up playing on dif consoles, and have games on my phone as well. But the guy I’ve been dating has an obsession… and It’s just exhausting. People telling me “ well it could be worse! He could be out cheating! “ ….. if you have to eat sleep breathe a game at home AND in public, neglect responsibilities, friends, family and your own personal hygiene, you have a PROBLEM. And I didn’t realize it was that bad at first. Or I was listening to those people saying “ it’s just an outlet! Thats how he decompresses probably!” But if you cant go to dinner without playing on your phone, go for a walk, drive to the grocery store… if the first thing you do when you wake up and last thing before bed is play these games. Huff, mope, roll your eyes when I ask if we can watch a movie together.. or he’ll play the movie in the background while having the game playing on a dif screen…. Smh I’m done w the relationship… no advice needed…I don’t want to continue being the mistress to his digital world….I just wanted to vent…it’s just frustrating to know someone could care so much about a game but lead you on like they were interested in you for YOU…..
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