I hear you. Smart move to end it.

Honestly it’s not different than when someone chooses to get high or drunk on a regular basis or work 24/7 (not because of financial need) or play sports every free minute or gamble etc etc. Anything not in moderation makes people unavailable for healthy relationship. The only way they can maintain relationships if their partners put up with their addictions. But no one has to put up with this.

They either have to seek serious help or don’t engage in serious relationships. Or maybe they can find someone just as unhealthy as them and leave the rest of us alone.

Stay strong.