The guy is a jerk. That’s what he does. Disrespects her. It’s not the first time.

Of course OP could keep contacting him and look for new ways to get to the guy. Sure, she can. But what’s the goal here? To accomplish what? She already tried different methods, he keeps saying he wants space. For how long do you think she should keep contacting him and how many different methods should she use? He’s not miraculously turning into Prince Charming. .

What you see is what you get.

I am curious to see if OP will respond to my question if they do anything else together besides him coming over to stay the night. And if he also sees this as a meaningful committed relationship like she does. Or he doesn’t care and doesn’t think much of it. His actions do speak volumes