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Originally Posted by Etcetera1
What toxicity? That she would like to be alone while dealing with the eye surgery? That's where his PUNITIVE blocking of her started. It was not a boundary being set there with decent and respectful communication, but punitive blocking with demeaning insults. Please go back to the start of this thread and read how that happened if you didn't see it.
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There is no need to be belittling. I have read the whole thread. IMO it was toxic to tell him to leave her alone when she was drunk texting him. That's like breaking up with him simply because she had had a few drinks, and not because it was truly meant. Not until she was sober did the eye surgery come up, and could have been an excuse for the drunk texts. He even told her that they are both toxic to each other.