I also think that it would unfortunately usually mean this. Maybe work on yourself more (posting here is helpful for some) and read up about boundaries. It does sound as if you've perhaps crossed some of his. Or maybe he is an A hole.... A holes, naturally, also have boundaries. I agree, it is cowardly of him to end it by slowly fading out. He probably has poor communication skills and was afraid of an argument.
eta. I read your post again. He still wants you in his life... can you say more?
How are things now? What are your interests and values in life?
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Originally Posted by divine1966
When a person tells you that they can’t focus on relationships and they need a break, it always means they are breaking up with you but think that this way it’s not as hard for you and it’s less chance of an argument. Cowardly way to end it by slowly fading out. I’d stop waiting for him and move on. Sometimes relationships just don’t work out.
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