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Originally Posted by divine1966
The guy is a jerk. That’s what he does. Disrespects her. It’s not the first time.
Of course OP could keep contacting him and look for new ways to get to the guy. Sure, she can. But what’s the goal here? To accomplish what? She already tried different methods, he keeps saying he wants space. For how long do you think she should keep contacting him and how many different methods should she use? He’s not miraculously turning into Prince Charming. .
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Agreed, OP needs to take responsibility and see that this will not get better. I can understand that his behaviour creates uncertainty and in turn that creates emotional turmoil and confusion so OP feels a strong need for closure, but responsibility really needs to be taken to not get stuck in that.