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Originally Posted by Have Hope
There is no need to be belittling. I have read the whole thread. IMO it was toxic to tell him to leave her alone when she was drunk texting him. That's like breaking up with him simply because she had had a few drinks, and not because it was truly meant. Not until she was sober did the eye surgery come up, and could have been an excuse for the drunk texts. He even told her that they are both toxic to each other.
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Did not intend to be belittling. She did mention the eye surgery in the original drunk text, according to the first post in the thread.
That thing with being left alone, I interpreted it in the context of her also saying in that text that she's scared.
But I think what really matters is that OP needs to move on from this limbo
(If she hasn't yet)