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Originally Posted by poshgirl
It could also be that you no longer put up with things that you used to, so could be reason for the weirder feeling.
I've always been a straight talker, far more than members of my family. Now 60+, I'm also realising that I don't have to put up with bad behaviour of others.
As we age, we often see things from a different standpoint. I've recently met someone (online, not dating site) who has changed my outlook. We agree that opening up is a personal choice and should never be forced. My aunt says I'm like a closed book, that's just the way I am. Again, now I'm older, she gets to know more than before.
As for complaining, I do more but only where it's valid so doesn't become whinging.
So does it feel weird? Yes. Is it something that's arisen out of lockdown(s)? Maybe. I try and include humour too but there's a danger that the recipient will take it as an insult or not even understand the sarcastic element. Others say they've become bolder as they've aged. 
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Yeah makes sense, as we age we start seeing things from a different standpoint. I definitely don’t tolerate crap as much, I think I’ve changed in my approach to dealing with problems. I’m a closed book too, I keep all personal matters away from my family especially if it’s negative. I think it also stems from a frar of being judged, I’ve been judged before.