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Originally Posted by eskielover
Haven't had the personal experience.....but in my mind, sometimes I wish I had been adopted & grown up with different parents who would have been more capable & less dysfunctional.
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I relate to this. I was not adopted. But I was strikingly different to my ''biological parents''...... they were extremely dysfunctional, mostly in regards to a clinically diagnosable destructive narcissistic pattern.... I am one of the least ''narcissistic'' people around. Although my Parental UNITS repeatedly blasted me as being terminally selfish. I was exiled permanently because of my ''Selfishnesss''. (and being so ''unendearing''..... I guess grizzly bear cubs are not necessarily particularly ''endearing'' to a different species.

They on the other hand were only ever ''Altruistic''......
Yeah right. I guess they, despite their ''Superior'' intelligence were too lazy or arrogant to research the basic psychological principle of Projection...
My half siblings rejected me. I think, in fact I'm sure that one of the parental units (or all of them...)... there is also a step ''maternal unit''........ ''influenced'' their disregard and discard of me