@Creepeh -

In the last few years, I have accepted my gender which my close nit friends would say I am Gender Queen / Gender Fluid. There is a difference if you have not crossed that in your understating of your self.

I lean to the masculine side then I do the female. It as given me the oppurntiy to change my birth name serval times and feel fortunate to be able to.

I am not well reversed about Asexuals however would like to get a better understanding though someone that Identifies . I have noticed many post around Asexuals experiences in life and their feelings.

When I read your post I was drawn to respond. In the LGBTQIA.... community, we have developed so many ways to express are gender. May your gender questioning become easier with time.

I am trilled that your sister is an ally for you and the community.