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Originally Posted by RollercoasterLover
I've never regretted giving someone else more grace, kindness or understanding than they deserved. It's only been in the last year or 2 that I've been able to do this with the abusive ex I have. I understand how difficult it can be.
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I really liked your whole post, very wise and spot on IMO.
I want to say, the part that I've quoted, I've regretted it before. Because I just got emotional abuse from the person, having spoilt that person by my being too kind and understanding with her. Going out of my way to be like that to her.
I don't think I would be able to do it with anyone anymore. I don't understand how it works for you. Does it help you or the ex in any way?