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Originally Posted by divine1966
The guy is a jerk. That’s what he does. Disrespects her. It’s not the first time.
Of course OP could keep contacting him and look for new ways to get to the guy. Sure, she can. But what’s the goal here? To accomplish what? She already tried different methods, he keeps saying he wants space. For how long do you think she should keep contacting him and how many different methods should she use? He’s not miraculously turning into Prince Charming. .
What you see is what you get.
I am curious to see if OP will respond to my question if they do anything else together besides him coming over to stay the night. And if he also sees this as a meaningful committed relationship like she does. Or he doesn’t care and doesn’t think much of it. His actions do speak volumes
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I don't think its right to call the former boyfriend a jerk when we don't know his side of the story in this relationship. He hasn't came to this website to explain his side of the story.
All that I've seen thus far is OP getting drunk one night.. sent her former boyfriend a breakup drunk text that was hateful. The boyfriend reacted by blocking her.. COMPLETELY understandable.. Who wants to deal with a nasty drunk? I've lived with one my whole life.. My suggestions to the OP is to start attending nightly meetings... AA - Alcoholics Anonymous is a lifeline to living a sober life.
Learn to respect peoples personal space and boundaries. When someone blocks you.. it means that they don't want to speak with you either it be temporary or permanently. By contacting the boyfriend from other social media input is disrespectful.. in fact is borderline stalking.