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Originally Posted by EagleTears
I don't think its right to call the former boyfriend a jerk when we don't know his side of the story in this relationship. He hasn't came to this website to explain his side of the story.
All that I've seen thus far is OP getting drunk one night.. sent her former boyfriend a breakup drunk text that was hateful. The boyfriend reacted by blocking her.. COMPLETELY understandable.. Who wants to deal with a nasty drunk? I've lived with one my whole life.. My suggestions to the OP is to start attending nightly meetings... AA - Alcoholics Anonymous is a lifeline to living a sober life.
Learn to respect peoples personal space and boundaries. When someone blocks you.. it means that they don't want to speak with you either it be temporary or permanently. By contacting the boyfriend from other social media input is disrespectful.. in fact is borderline stalking.
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Well I agree about not wanting to deal with drunks. The way I see it though is he has been ghosting and blocking her before. She never said it’s because she was drunk before. It seems like that’s how he deals with things. Plus it sounds that they both drink. Bad combination
We always see only one side of the story. She described him as a jerk so I am not going to question it.
Living sober life is always the best solution but she never came back to the thread so who knows what’s happening