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Originally Posted by Lunch
Hey Man
I read about your separation and immediately related.
I recently moved out of the family home leaving behind two daughters (5 & 8).
My wife just couldn't cope with me anymore.
It's a bitter pill to swallow but there it is.
I think the fine details of our situations are somewhat different but there were a couple of things which were very familiar.
Please try to keep your head up.
Be honest with yourself, do whatever it takes to feel connected and vital.
Solidarity
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Hey there, I want to add something after all having read this.
This sounds gaslighty to me:
"My wife just couldn't cope with me anymore."
Just the way it's put, it sounds wrong.... Because, you somehow took all the blame. 100% of the blame. When it's usually a 50/50 thing with the responsibility, you know it takes two to tango and so on. She probably did a lot of drama to make you think that in the end. It's completely a nonfactual statement, it's vague, all the facts missing from it and is a dramatic, very guilt-trippy statement. I'm sorry. It was probably a crappy relationship anyway. I wish you the best luck to rebuilding your life and finding a better relationship!!