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Originally Posted by rdgrad15
I agree, it appears families are the hardest to deal with and talk to since they get defensive the most it seems.
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Ah that wasn't what I was trying to say. I find it's easiest to talk with and deal with family, personally. I like the loudness, too. I just am low and tired often now
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I tend to use the words complaining and venting interchangeably, always thought they were basically the same thing but I can see how they can be different. I know people that complain non-stop and they don't seem to want to find a solution, that's very annoying and energy draining. I may say a few things about what is bothering me in a tone that doesn't sound whiny but then I still feel bad about it, sometimes I want a solution but other times I just want to vent. Either way though I wind up feeling bad so I just keep it to myself and if I ever do vent, I usually tell people I'm fine shortly afterwards so they don't see me as a negative person even though I rarely vent.
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How do you end up feeling bad after venting?