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Originally Posted by Waterbear
Thank you Quietmind, that means a great deal to me. I'm doing 'okay', thank you. Still finding it hard to adjust if I'm honest. I'm trying very hard not to Google my Ex T and her family, after realising that I am only hurting myself by doing it, really. Starting over with a new T is incredibly difficult but I'm still going, and we are still trying. I'm hoping things will get easier. All I can do is keep making the most of everything I do have and keep trying to find a happy and healthy way forwards. Sometimes I win with this, and sometimes I lose, but I'm ok, and I do feel like I am slowly inching my way out of the complete breakdown that happened almost a year ago now. Wow... Where did that time go!!
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I'm hoping things get easier for you. I still miss my Ex T a great deal too, and have had to work on trying to not Google her and her family. As incredibly painful and traumatic this loss is, it speaks to just how much impact age had and has on you. One day at a time, friend.