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Originally Posted by Etcetera1
That's great that you know some nice, reasonable people like that....I would say those people who want to assume that you are in a "constant state of despair" are just fairweather friends and the like who are really self-absorbed and so extremely concerned with their own comfort. So that they overreact like that. It's a stupid, ridiculous and absurd idea of theirs really.
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Exactly and in fact, people who are like that are usually miserable themselves so they enjoy the constant back and forth negative talk that comes from two people who may be having a bad day. I've learned to keep an eye out for those kinds of people and make sure I never open myself up to them, no need to encourage any more negativity than there already is.