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Originally Posted by Rive.
Great! That is good advocating for yourself and your needs.
It seems exhausting to always be made to feel you have to defend your position or feelings... I mean, it is not a 'bro club'. Your therapist's stance could only be seen as him enabling your husband and making you the problematic element in your relationship dynamics. How is that helpful or even therapeutic.
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I know, right?!? I do feel like I'm the problematic element, based on the dynamic with our therapist. It's both exhausting AND most defeating. It certainly does not help me to feel good about myself OR strengthened in any way. So, I have to do that on my own and for myself instead.
This new therapist is supposed to call me today... I hope to hear from her.
And thank you for the encouragement.
