So, my sister cried the other night. I feel like we are spending too much time together, she feels like it is not enough. I just need a lot of space in general. She said she is worried about me because I seem not to do anything with anyone anymore. So I told her that my capacity has been to do something with someone every 2 weeks and since she is demanding so much time from me, I don't have the energy to spend any time with friends. I would like to, but I'm completely depleted and I don't want to hurt her, but what choice do I have? I don't want to overexcert myself anymore. I am tired of this, tired of not being enough for her and tired of not getting to spend my time as I would like to.

Now she wants me to ask my T for Tipps to her how she could deal with this situation. Am I being unreasonable for not wanting to spend my hour a week on her? I mean, it's not like I don't have my own stuff to work through, now I have to work through her stuff, too?