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Old Apr 09, 2022, 01:54 PM
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Originally Posted by AliceKate View Post
Thanks Divine for validating my frustration Yes, she is an adult, older than me, actually, and I'm already in my mid-30s. How can I tell her that without crushing her?
If a normal kind of thing is potentially crushing her, then she needs to seek help, you can’t fix it. You can’t help her. She needs to get busy, get a job, or volunteer or get a hobby and see a psychiatrist and a therapist. I don’t understand how and why she’d be crushed. Is there more to the story? Does she have a disability? Health problems? Is incapacitated?