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Old Apr 09, 2022, 03:50 PM
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Originally Posted by AliceKate View Post
She understands partly, to a point she was also like this before the kid came along. But she wants to find a compromise and it just means we are both unhappy. The new equillibrium we found is that from now on, I will take over scheduling our time together instead of her constantly asking to see me. I said I would attempt to make it so we see each other every 2 weeks (which breaks her heart, really...)
Every 2 weeks sounds pretty fine really, a lot of really good close friends nowadays don't have time to see each other every 2 weeks. My sister has several kids and I maybe see her once a year now, we've both had a lot on our plates

Maybe you two could talk about it and figure out a way that these meetings every 2nd week are really really satisfying quality time for both of you