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Apr 09, 2022, 04:28 PM
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Member Since: Oct 2004
Location: Kentucky, USA
Posts: 25,083
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Originally Posted by Etcetera1
I see so he was like judgmental and disagreeable, passive aggressive?
Can I actually ask about one more thing, when you distanced from him you figured he would try and get the message that you had a problem hence you distanced? But he didn't change anything so you blocked him?
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Mostly in a passive aggressive way & only thing we could talk about were things like animals without having strong disagreements on.
I had actually realized the problem when I first distanced & told him outright. So he knew I had an issue with him. I made no attempt to re-engage with him after just unfriending him but when he attempted in reconnecting, again in a passive aggressive way, he knew exactly what my issues were so at that point I just blocked him because obviously he didn't get it. I only used blocking as a last resort. Most logical people would have gotten the unfriending thing but his desire to be friends just didn't seem to allow him to think logically....more to this from in the past that came back in pieces from around 1978 which also made me know that the way I handled this was right. & yes, I did not make him guess at my issues with him. I am up front now, cause I know what is causing someone to bother me & upfront when they are someone more than just a person I pass by in life or work around for a few months that are just annoying to be around & will never see again once that time is over.
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