kim, I have no idea why slippers posted about you and your post but I don't think anyone on this thread posted negatively in response to your post. It was quite articulate on its own. I can't speak for pinksoil, but I never thought any of the subtext here was in relation to you. I also have no idea what slippers meant about "both sides"? Sheesh, is there a battle going on now? Wonder what side someone has assigned me to? Whoever's doing the classifying, please count me out. I hate that kind of crap.