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Old Apr 10, 2022, 03:14 PM
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Originally Posted by Rive. View Post
Great. I hope she is more helpful (read: unbiased).

Reason: I would be truthful and say that the current guy is not working for you (e.g. 'I am not feeling heard' or however you are feeling) & that you am seeking someone who would be supportive to both of your (i.e. you and your husband's) perspectives and feelings. In other words, where *both* of you would feel validated and heard. Something like that...
Thanks! I love your suggestion too. I like how it makes things equal in our sessions.
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Thanks for this!
Etcetera1, Rive.